LGBTQ+ romance in games is something that is still growing. In an attempt to make in-game romances more inclusive, many studios use a “playersexual” character system. Playersexual simply means that NPCs are all romanceable, regardless of gender.
While there is a debate on the best way to present inclusive romance options, there are gamers who appreciate this romance system. Playersexual characters allow players to enjoy same-gender relationships with anyone they want, even if that system isn’t perfect. The player can roleplay a bit to create a more defined sexuality in the game world as needed. Here are some of the best games with playersexual romances available.
Playersexuality is not equivalent to bisexuality. For canon bisexual characters, check out this list.
10 Fallout: New Vegas
Fallout: New Vegas
Franchise Fallout Platform(s) PS3 , Xbox 360 , PC Released October 19, 2010 Developer(s) Obsidian Entertainment Publisher(s) Bethesda Genre(s) RPG ESRB M for Mature: Blood and Gore, Intense Violence, Sexual Content, Strong Language, Use of Drugs Expand
While Fallout: New Vegas doesn’t have a deep romance option like other RPGs, there are brief, intimate moments you can share with a companion. After finishing certain quests, you can have a one-time encounter with various characters.
You can have physical encounters with male or female characters, gay or straight. These brief hookups may not exactly be romantic, but they’re open regardless of your gender.
9 Fable Series
Fable (2025)
Franchise Fable Platform(s) Windows , Xbox Series X , Xbox Series S Developer(s) Playground Games Publisher(s) Xbox Game Studios Genre(s) Action RPG , Adventure
Throughout the Fable series, players have always had the option of engaging in same-sex relationships. In Fable 1, for example, a player’s sexuality would change depending on who they married or slept with. In Fable 2, however, that went away, and their sexuality wasn’t present.
In Fable 3, however, you had to discover an NPC’s sexuality to figure out if they were romanceable or not for your particular character. While the games have changed the romance system over the years, they were one of the first games to operate on a playersexual level.
8 Starfield
Starfield
Platform(s) PC , Xbox Series X , Xbox Series S Released September 6, 2023 Developer(s) Bethesda Publisher(s) Bethesda Genre(s) Action , RPG Engine ESRB M For Mature 17+ Due To Blood, Suggestive Themes, Use of Drugs, Strong Language, Violence Expand
Like other Bethesda games, Starfield uses a playersexual romance system. Four of the main companions are romanceable: Andreja, Barrett, Sam, and Sarah. You can romance all four of them, regardless of your gender in the game.
Each companion is tied to the main plot, so you won’t miss encountering them. The romance is straightforward; you raise their fondness by choosing the correct dialogue options. While slightly underwhelming compared to games further down this list, all romance options are available, regardless of gender.
7 Dragon’s Dogma 2
Dragon's Dogma 2
Platform(s) PC , PS5 , Xbox Series X , Xbox Series S Released March 22, 2024 Developer(s) Capcom Publisher(s) Capcom Genre(s) Action RPG
Dragon’s Dogma 2 also engages the playersexual romance system, though there are more options. You can romance nearly any NPC encountered on your travels. Some of these romances lack more depth than others, but all are available regardless of your chosen body and voice type.
There are no real limitations on courtship, regardless of class, station, or gender. While the romances are fairly simple, they are touching nonetheless.
6 Fallout 4
Fallout 4
Franchise Fallout Platform(s) PC , PS4 , PS5 , Xbox One , Xbox Series X , Xbox Series S Released November 10, 2015 Developer(s) Bethesda Publisher(s) Bethesda Genre(s) RPG , Action Engine Creation ESRB M FOR MATURE: BLOOD AND GORE, INTENSE VIOLENCE, STRONG LANGUAGE, USE OF DRUGS Expand
Unlike Fallout: New Vegas, Fallout 4 has romance plotlines rather than mere hookups. The world may be a desolate wasteland, but people are still searching for love. There are plenty of companions to couple up with, regardless of gender or preference.
Whether playing as male or female, you can find love by raising the Affinity Levels of your chosen partner. Players can choose to follow their hearts, wherever they may lead.
5 Dragon Age 2
Dragon Age 2
Franchise Dragon Age Platform(s) macOS , PC , PS3 , Xbox 360 Released March 8, 2011 Developer(s) BioWare Publisher(s) Electronic Arts Genre(s) RPG ESRB M for Mature: Blood and Gore, Language, Sexual Content, Violence Expand
Back in 2011, Dragon Age 2 coined the term “playersexual,” allowing you to romance anyone you wish. All four potential partners could be pursued by a female or male version of the main character, Hawke.
The game’s idea that romance is available for all sexualities was considered very inclusive at the time. While it wasn’t perfect, it became the blueprint for the various playersexual games on this list, giving players tools for exploration and validation.
4 The Elder Scrolls 5: Skyrim
Skyrim
Franchise The Elder Scrolls Platform(s) PC , PS3 , Xbox 360 , Xbox One , Xbox One X , Xbox Series S , PS4 , PS5 , Switch Released November 11, 2011 Developer(s) Bethesda Publisher(s) Bethesda Genre(s) RPG , Action , Adventure Engine Creation ESRB M for Mature: Use of Alcohol, Blood and Gore, Intense Violence, Sexual Themes Expansions Skyrim: Dragonborn , Skyrim: Hearthfire , Skyrim: Dawnguard How Long To Beat 26 Hours Expand
The Elder Scrolls 5: Skyrim received a lot of praise (and controversy) after its release for its inclusive romance options. In the game, your Dragonborn is free to marry a partner of any gender or race once you have the Amulet of Mara.
The original marriage questline was tweaked even more when the huge modding community began working on the romance options. With over 60 companions eligible for marriage, you have plenty of options regardless of your preferences.
3 Stardew Valley
Stardew Valley
Platform(s) PC , Xbox One , Android , iOS , PS4 , Switch Released February 26, 2016 Developer(s) ConcernedApe Publisher(s) ConcernedApe Genre(s) RPG , Simulation Multiplayer Local Multiplayer , Online Multiplayer Engine Proprietary ESRB E for Everyone (Fantasy Violence, Mild Blood, Mild Language, Simulated Gambling, Use of Alcohol and Tobacco) Expand
Stardew Valley is a cozy game where players can immerse themselves in a charming life on a farm. Part of this immersion is finding love. You can fully customize your character as either male or female, and you can fall for any of the 12 bachelors and bachelorettes living near you.
Whether in a gay or straight relationship, you can get married and have children, making it one of the more inclusive video games available in regards to romance.
2 Baldur’s Gate 3
Baldur's Gate 3
Franchise Baldur's Gate Platform(s) PC , macOS , PS5 , Xbox Series X Released August 3, 2023 Developer(s) Larian Studios Publisher(s) Larian Studios Genre(s) RPG Multiplayer Engine ESRB M for Mature: Blood and Gore, Partial Nudity, Sexual Content, Strong Language, Violence Expand See at Steam
Baldur’s Gate 3 is known for its romance. While the overarching story of the game involves a lot of violence and tragedy, you can find love amidst the chaos. The popular game has six well-written romances you can explore.
Whether male or female, your companions can return your affections. Their approval or disapproval can make or break the romance, but if you play your cards right, you can fall in love with the companion you like best.
1 The Sims 4
The Sims 4
Franchise The Sims Platform(s) PS4 , Xbox One , PC Released September 2, 2014 Developer(s) Maxis Publisher(s) Electronic Arts Genre(s) Simulation ESRB T for Teen: Crude Humor, Sexual Themes, Violence Expand
The Sims' main goal has always been to allow players to create the fictional life of their choosing. Letting them romance whoever they like is a part of that. The Sims 4 is the most inclusive installment yet, allowing for clothing preferences, polyamory, and customizable pronouns.
While you can set sexual preferences in Create A Sim for your playthrough, NPCs still don’t have sexualities attached to them. You can romance any NPC you would like, if you choose to play that way.
