Minding your business shouldn’t be this hard.
A California woman is going viral after sharing a confrontation with a neighbor she says accused her of using drugs simply for sitting in her parked car. The encounter quickly escalated into a heated exchange, with the TikToker alleging she was being profiled for being Black while the woman insisted she had no idea what race she was.
@al1as.unknownn
Backstory: Good morning, I am sharing this to raise awareness. I enjoy sitting in my car in the morning listening to music or watching videos on my phone. Today, I was parked and doing just that when I was harassed by a woman who walked past twice and then started circling my car. She assumed that because I had my car on and was sitting inside, I must be doing drugs. However, as you can clearly see, there was no paraphernalia or smoke; she simply saw me sitting with my head down, watching videos, and began harassing me, telling me she called the police. As you can hear in the video she admits that she didn’t see any drugs nor could she confirm I was doing any drugs she simply saw me with my head down in my phone and assumed i was “nodding off.” I stayed in my car in the same spot, waiting for the police to arrive, but none came, so it’s clear she only made that statement to scare me. I don’t wish any harm on this woman, but I should not and will not have to feel fearful in my own neighborhood because I am a Black woman, and that makes some individuals uncomfortable. #karen #sacramento #916 #beingblackinamerica
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Posted by TikTok user @al1as.unknownn, the clip opens with the creator confronting a woman she says accused her of being on drugs while she sat in her parked car. “You saw a Black woman sitting in her car,” she says. “You automatically assumed I’m on drugs.” The woman quickly denies race played a role. “I didn’t even know you were Black,” she responds. “I just saw somebody.”
The situation further escalates when the woman claims she contacted police. Rather than appearing worried, the California TikToker invites her to stay and wait for officers to arrive together but the woman begins walking away instead. “If you called the police, why aren’t you staying and waiting for them?” she asks before accusing the woman of profiling her and calling her a “racist ass lady.”
In the caption accompanying the video, al1as.unknown says she had simply been sitting in her car with her head down, watching videos when the woman assumed she was using drugs. She claims there was no smoke or paraphernalia visible and says she remained parked waiting for police, but alleges officers never arrived. “It’s clear she only made that statement to scare me,” she wrote.
Commenters Side with the California Driver
Many commenters expressed frustration that incidents like this continue to happen, with several questioning why simply sitting in a parked car was enough to arouse suspicion in the first place. “Why can’t people sit in their car?! I don’t get it,” one user wrote.
Others felt the interaction reflected a larger issue. “Why can’t white people just leave Black people alone? Racism is a seriously deadly disease for them,” one commenter said. Another added, “How very horrible that one still will judge another on the pigmentation of their skin. So sad.”
Some viewers argued that even if the woman genuinely believed something suspicious was happening, it still wasn’t her place to intervene. “Even if you had drugs it still isn’t your business. This is ridiculous,” one person wrote. “If you think there is a problem call for help. If she thought she was right she wouldn’t have walked away. I’m sorry this happened to you. Bless her heart.”
Still some focused on what they felt the TikToker should do next, with one commenter joking, “Girl I’m so petty, I’d follow her home and post her address,” while another suggested, “File charges for false report.”
Primarily though, most commenters were on the same page that incidents like this are becoming far too common, particularly for people of color who say they’re often questioned or confronted while doing ordinary things like sitting in a parked car.
